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Your schedule

Two questions: when do you have your kids, and when could you actually go out. Nobody sees this. Your match only ever gets the times you have in common.
1

Who are you?

A first name is all they see. No surname, no photo, nothing else.

We send you your own link, and tell you when they answer. There is no account, so this is also the only way back if you lose the tab. We never show it to them.

2

Which pattern is yours?

Pick the closest one. You can adjust every handoff time in the next step.

These are school-year patterns. Handoffs like “after school” mean nothing in July, and almost every order has separate holiday and summer rotations. Block those out in step 4.

3

When does the cycle start?

Pick any Monday you know you were on. The calendar below fills in with real dates, so you can check it against the fortnight you actually live.

Any date works; it snaps back to that week’s Monday.

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5 nights with your kids per 14 days. The shaded blocks are when they are with you.

4

When could you actually go out?

Not when you are free in principle. When you would genuinely leave the house.

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5

Anything blocking you?

Travel, school holidays, the weeks your pattern goes out the window. This is how you stop the calendar confidently offering you a night in the middle of summer break.

6

Where are you?

Used to get the clock right, nothing else.